Originally Posted by semiannualchick:
seeweed, I have a question & do not mean to be disrespectful by asking.
You say you're a Christian, so that must mean you believe what the Bible says. In regarding prayer, Matthew 7:7 says, "Ask, and it shall be given you".
Doesn't say might be given, it says shall be. There's no misunderstanding what it says. People change scriptures around to mean what they want them to. I prefer to see them for what they say.
When a person prays for something, they ask, as scripture says for them to do. Why was it not given to them?
Well, Semi, you have ask a question that has puzzled a lot of people , for a long , long time. I don't have any short answer, and I do not wish to write a sermonette, not that I am qualified, but here are some the things I believe should be considered. First, before I get started on that, I would like to state my view of God . Jesus portrays him to be our Heavenly Father, who loves us and guides us. Scripture also refers to Jesus as the "firstborn of many" and that as Christians we are children of God, ie: brothers and sisters of Jesus, and airs to the promise God made Abraham. I could go on , but I hope you get the picture.
There is another view of God, that I do not hold, but many seem to , and that is the picture of a God who sits on a throne with a long rod with a big hard knot on the end, and if you do something he dosen't approve, he's going to reach out with it , and knock you on the head - maybe with some sickness, or maybe some other kind of punishment. Basically, this is kinda the Calvinist viewpoint.
Now, back to the question;
With the former viewpoint in mind, think of how you would address a young child who wants candy , maybe at 3PM , and again at 5:30 (right before supper) with that same request. In the first case, you may oblige and reward the kid, in the second you would not because something much better for him is just around the corner.
Then there are the cases where what you are praying for may be something you could do yourself , like if you were praying for the "demon of fat" to be cast out of you, whereas we know that kind goes only by" prayer and fasting" :-).
Then there are the cases of people praying for things that would be harmful to them, kinda like the kid wanting to eat the entire box of chocolates.
I believe that you get things you ask for if you are praying foro things that are in the will of God, but to ask for example "great wealth" when we are told how hard it is for a rich man to get into Heaven, may just be counter productive from God's will.
Basically, I really don't know, but those are my thoughts. I have has a lot of prayers unanswered, like asking God to restore health to my grandmother, and later my mother when they had started going downhill, but I also know that Scripture says "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints". But, on the other hand when my daughter was just a little girl, she came down with JRA, supposedly an incurable form or arthritis, but thru prayer, whe was cured to the astonishment of her specalist. Also, when I lost my job at the bank during the Reagan recession, I prayed and prayed for the job that I had interviewed for with TVA , and although it took about a year, the Lord gave it to me . In fact, I was riffed 3 different times, but for all the trying I managed to say on and retire. I believe that God gave me that job, and even Marvin Runyon couldn't take it away.
There is one other factor involved in answered prayer, and that is the concept of faith, because Faith pleases God we are told.
Finding faith is not like finding a green Easter egg in tall grass, faith is just the concept of knowing what God has said and promised, and believing he will do what he said. Simple as that, but it does require you to know what He said (and I would highly recommend you learn that by reading the Scripture and NOT by listening to some preacher or so-called preacher).
There is another thing I try to avoid personally, and that is religion , which I define as "what leases man". Jesus gave several examples of religion vs faith, one of which seems to always come up in the subject of prayer in school.
Jesus told us NOT to pray loudly on the street corners , which I also interpret as over a microphone in an intercom) , but to go into a closet and pray quietly to God , which I think means just go be by yourself , at least in your mind, and issue your prayers to God.
Sorry, didn't mean to try to outdo BG, but complicated issues deserve more than a one or two line response.
So, that's my take on it, I hope it gives you something to consider.
I will make a suggestion, it is something I did and I learned so much for doing it.
Read the Bible to see what it has to say, not to look for some hook, not to try to prove or disprove a point of view. You will find that for the most part, the entire Bible basically goes back to when God made a covenant with Abraham and split the cow in two halves and walked between them. He made promises to Abraham, and much of the rest of it is what those promises are , and how they have been fulfilled. If you are a Christian , you are the "seed" of Abraham , and all those promises are yours as well.