Well, he was three when he first said he was a little girl. We have no idea if there was an anti-male tone in the house and no reason to believe there was/is. Also, he might have plenty of male influence around him. Because his parents are l e s b i a n s does not automatically mean no males in his life or a hatred for males from them. And explain this happening to other parents that are "straight". I absolutely would not start a sex change on a child that young, but the tone of the story seems, seems, seems, to be that they are only doing it because they are a g a y couple. You can get messed up kids from any walk of life.