Jennifer, don't you think people can see what you are? We can all read you know. All of your accusations of lying ARE just you twisting their words. You may be a nice enough person that people come to help you during a crisis, but you are NOT honest, and anyone who has been reading this forum for the past couple of years can see that. For some reason, perhaps because you are afraid to let it show in PUBLIC, you feel a need to be as angry and nasty and bitter online, behind a screen name, as you can possibly be. If it helps you to achieve balance in your life, go for it, but don't expect others to be fooled by it. You are making a spectacle of yourself with your dishonest, angry posts.