I have studied psychology & though I am in no way an expert, I truly feel that those people that feel the need to put others down is because of a low self esteem.
Why else would they do it? Why does a school yard bully pick on other children? Same thing.
I'm sorry if my comment offended you in any way.
I think most of us figured that out about you not being an expert already. Our question is why do you like to play the part of a victim? You can't get away from the school yard bully when you're a kid on the school yard, but you're an adult now and this place is different. Look for the little X at the top right of your screen and click on that or look for a button under a red light and push it. If you cant find those you can always unplug your computer. All your problems will disappear.