So what I'm reading from some is that it's OK for an atheist to assert their right to not have an official prayer at taxpayer funded events but that it's not OK for Christians to assert their right to speak out loud when praying. What I am hearing is a few people telling me that Christians need to go to the corner and be quite but that is simply not going to happen.
I didn't see that anywhere here. Who said that? What you are hearing and what others are saying isn't the same thing.
The problem is that saying prayers over the loudspeaker is cool for one group, but the rest of the group there might not want to hear them. So all people are saying is you say your prayers if you like and anyone else can do whatever she likes...but not over the loudspeaker and not in a disruptive way that infringes on others' rights. No one said you couldn't pray.