Just because this particular woman was attractive to me doesn't mean or shouldn't be taken to mean I meant only those who I deem attractive should be treated special but rather IF a certain man wants to make a woman feel special, granted usually that person would have some attractive traits to the person, then they should be willing to express that rather than not. The key point is to make the person feel special if you want them to feel special and that is ONE way in which it can be done. I did though go out of my way to express that I didn't know the circumstances and that my suggestion might not apply so why make something out of nothing? I'm not.
As for the second point about picking up after themselves that I did apply to all.
As for why put it here? There was not another more reasonable place to post it for my target audience would be College age youth who might be more of having a job or means to pay for their date although High School or teens might could be a location also or Misc but I chose a forum where I felt more of the target audience would be to read it.
Getting back to the original or first point .... There are naturally some perks that come naturally to those we find attractive verses those that are not deemed so "attractive". It's highly subjective therefore varies greatly from person to person so it applies or could apply to anyone for there is someone somewhere, everywhere, that finds beauty in someone or some person where another person might not find that kind of beauty. Point is that far too many men today are lazy and feel as if the girl should take care of them and in that are the feminist have gone too far, in my opinion. Facts are though that whether you agree or like it or not the beauties get by without the traffic tickets and get warnings or get more looks or perks than those who are not so conforming to what society currently deems as beautiful or attractive. I'm not trying to justify it but rather say IF (to the men) a girl is special to you for WHATEVER reason then it should be expressed or shown. That's simply all there is to it, not looking for a fight or argument in doing so and not expressing an opinion about anyone on here.
You women, as you get older or wiser, do essentially the same thing when you get picky or many do. The men who have better looks gets your eye or who have greater wealth. Doesn't always apply nor should it but money and finances do have a way of making a moderately attractive man appear more acceptable to many women. With men some may look for wealth but usually it's far more basic and goes to physical appearance.