I don't know why they keep "pushing" these nde. Dead is dead and you don't come back. Talk to a doctor and ask them what it's possible to experience when your brain is deprived of oxygen. Ask people who have had high fevers to tell you some of the things they "saw", such as their toes talking to them. Sometimes I dream about my mother. She is as real and alive in those dreams as she ever was. I see her, I hear her, and I get to talk to her. Am I going somewhere mystical where my mother lives now? No, I'm visiting her in my mind. I have dreamed about my dad but not as much. It isn't that I love him any less, I think it's because I lost him so early in my life and he and I didn't have a chance to form that special "bond" like my mom and I did.