His energy isn't evil, and I would agree with you, Joy, that he needs healing in a serious way. I feel for whatever he has gone through in his life, but I recognize that look as one I have seen on predators' faces before, and adults aren't always safe around a child predator either. There is hurt, sadness, anger, and I agree that it is sad to see a wasted life.
It just reinforces to me that what we do to each other does matter. Who knows where his course went wrong? I don't know his history, but a small nastiness can damage a person sometimes as much as overt abuse. You make good points here, Joy.