Hippiegirl, I have a question for you. Do you think the fact that O No calls me her friend means that she's not a Christian?
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Originally Posted by thehippiegirl is gone.:
no maam, not necessarily. if she is a Christian, she prays for you and tells/shows God's Love for you. her desire would be that you come to know Jesus so you can spend eternity in Heaven and not be lost forever in torment. but if she is a Christian, she would not cross the boundary of non-Christian behavior, and indulge in any sin with you. (whatever that might be. i'm not saying that you live a wild life. i have no idea about that). there would be no compromise just because she is your friend...
i have many non-Christian friends. they know my beliefs and respect them. they don't ask me to compromise and join them in sinful activity. but some i've had to separate myself from, as they willfully commit sin. i do not participate in, or put myself in the company of sinful behavior, and won't allow anything to tarnish my testimony for Christ.
that's my personal belief, others may handle it differently.
thanks for asking Chick.
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Yes, O No does pray for me, & so does vplee, & they do that because they are my friends.
hg> good friends are wonderful blessings. i'm glad to know that. i pray for you also.
If O No is a Christian, she would not cross the boundary of non-Christian behavior, and indulge in any sin with me??? Exactly what sins would that be?
hg> anything that is not in line with God's will. all sin is the same to God, He makes no distinction like man does. (ie. stealing a pencil or telling a lie, vs rape or murder.)
I don’t rob banks, I don’t kill people, I don’t drink/smoke, (I mentioned those because most Christians believe those to be sins) I don’t cheat on my husband, I don’t take the name of God in vain (if He exist).
hg> i certainly never accused you of anything. in fact i said "whatever (sin) that might be. i'm not saying that you live a wild life. i have no idea about that."
In fact, some might see my life as boring. Just because someone isn’t a Christian doesn’t make them bad people.
hg> that is absolutely correct. as i said, i have many non-believing friends. you asked me "Do you think the fact that O No calls me her friend means that she's not a Christian?". i don't think a Christian being friends with a non-Christian is wrong at all, unless the Christian compromises her beliefs and indulges in sin with the non-Christian. that isn't speaking specifically of your situation, i don't know you or her. i would hope that the non-Christian would become Christian through their friendship. but if the non-Christian lives a sinful lifestyle, the Christian shouldn't be involved in it.
this isn't an attack on your morals Chick. it's my belief in general. you asked about you and O No specifically. i have little knowledge of either of you. i am truly glad ya'll are friends.
speaking personally for myself, i'm uncomfortable around drinking, cursing, or suggestive sexual talk. so i don't hang around people who do that. (i'm not saying people shouldn't drink, that's not up to me. but i have seen the result of how heavy drinking can destroy families, and it's my choice not to be in the middle of it.)
I know people that call themselves a Christian, in church everytime the doors are open, give large sums of money to the church, etc. but their daily life is bad & anything but Christian.
hg> that is sad but true.
(They are evidently some of Bill’s OSAS Christians)
If I did try to get O No to indulge in sin with me, I wouldn’t be much of a friend, would I?
hg> i wouldn't think so. but in general, it does happen.
What kind of friend would O No be if she refused to be around me because the nasty might rub off on her? (I assume you mean “indulge in sin” to be nasty)
hg> not much of a friend or a Christian. i'm not sure what you mean by 'nasty rubbing off'.
If O No lived in Alabama & we went to lunch together, is she crossing the boundary of non-Christian behavior & committing a sin?
hg> not at all to me, what would be sinful about having lunch with a friend? i do it all the time.
If vplee & I had lunch, is she committing a sin?
hg> i'd think not at all.
I have a friend that is the wife of a Pastor. When we have lunch or go shopping together, does that mean she’s not a Christian? Should the church throw her out for associating with me?
hg> i would question any church that did such.
It’s a wonder a non-Christian person would even be allowed in church. After all, some of that persons sins & non-Christian behavior might rub off on the Christians & contaminate them. Heaven forbid!!
hg> i never implied that all non-Christians are somehow tainted or steeped in sin, just because they aren't Christians. most of the ones i know are genuinely nice. often i don't even know they aren't Christian till we talk about God and they share that info with me. but as you surely know too, some are about as unGodly as it gets.
my point is that friends influence each other. my hope would be that Christians influence for good.
It really amazes me how some Christians interpret the Christian life to be & still have the nerve to refer to themselves as a Christian. God is probably shaking His head at their audacity.