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I graduated from DHS last year and I always liked going to school there. I was in the Tuscumbia School Systems for my entire education. Last year a boy threatened to blow up the school an he had a hit list; however, the school was not closed and the boy was not suspened. I always thought that if you made a threat you were suspended. More than half of the students didn't go to school the day that it was suppose to happen.

So this is why I am telling you all of this. My brother goes to Deshler High School or did. He attended Tuscumbia his entire life. This is his senior year and he started dating this girl. After they broke up she started harassing him. She was doing things like wearing his clothes to school, and harassing his new girlfriend as well. My brother went to the counselor. (Which I thought this was what they want the students to do if they have a problem.) He said that if they didnt take care of the problem then he would take care of it himself. The counselor went and told the principal. They said he made a threat. They called the police. They said that since he was failing two of his classes then they had to expell him.

First of all I can see how they are saying he made a threat, but I dont see why they expelled him. He didn't say he was going to kill the girl. My mom pointed out that the student last year didn't get suspended, and they said that that students threat was on paper. WTC?? How is that any different?? I would think that would be worse since that student also had a hit list. That student is still attending the school and my brother is at home because my mom withdrew him before he was expelled.

Today the school is on lock down. Someone has said it was because my brother got expelled and had mental problems and I am guessing that they think he is going to come to the school and do something. My brother is in his bed, and he doesn't even have a clue about the school being on lock down.

I would just like your opinions on this please.
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Originally posted by Ron Pheixising:
My opinion is this thread will be deleted within the hour and your brother should get out of bed (it's noon).


True..He should get out the bed. But why would this thread be deleted? I think its a big problem if the school expells one person but doesnt punish someone else for making a bigger threat than the one who did get expelled
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Originally posted by jenna0795:
I just spoke to someone at the highschool and they are saying they are not in a lockdown. I did not hear about the incident from last year. Sorry about your brother but I am guessing threats are not taken too lightly now adays, no matter what the circumstances.


My cousin who is in school right now texted me and said they were. I understand that threats arent taken to lightly. Thats why I am saying that I dont understand why he was expelled and the boy last year didn't even get punished.
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Originally posted by SEM08:
I graduated from DHS last year and I always liked going to school there. I was in the Tuscumbia School Systems for my entire education. Last year a boy threatened to blow up the school an he had a hit list; however, the school was not closed and the boy was not suspened. I always thought that if you made a threat you were suspended. More than half of the students didn't go to school the day that it was suppose to happen.

So this is why I am telling you all of this. My brother goes to Deshler High School or did. He attended Tuscumbia his entire life. This is his senior year and he started dating this girl. After they broke up she started harassing him. She was doing things like wearing his clothes to school, and harassing his new girlfriend as well. My brother went to the counselor. (Which I thought this was what they want the students to do if they have a problem.) He said that if they didnt take care of the problem then he would take care of it himself. The counselor went and told the principal. They said he made a threat. They called the police. They said that since he was failing two of his classes then they had to expell him.

First of all I can see how they are saying he made a threat, but I dont see why they expelled him. He didn't say he was going to kill the girl. My mom pointed out that the student last year didn't get suspended, and they said that that students threat was on paper. WTC?? How is that any different?? I would think that would be worse since that student also had a hit list. That student is still attending the school and my brother is at home because my mom withdrew him before he was expelled.

Today the school is on lock down. Someone has said it was because my brother got expelled and had mental problems and I am guessing that they think he is going to come to the school and do something. My brother is in his bed, and he doesn't even have a clue about the school being on lock down.

I would just like your opinions on this please.


Your brother has learned a vauable lesson.Life isn't fair.If this were my brother I would advise him to move forward and try get those failing grades up.It sounds as if the principle has got his number now and the best thing to combat that kind of attitude is to prove him wrong by being a good student.As for the ex everytime he acknowledges her behavior he is adding fuel to the fire.Don't you know she is dancing a jig right now because he is in trouble.Ignore her.
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Your brother has learned a vauable lesson.Life isn't fair.If this were my brother I would advise him to move forward and try get those failing grades up.It sounds as if the principle has got his number now and the best thing to combat that kind of attitude is to prove him wrong by being a good student.As for the ex everytime he acknowledges her behavior he is adding fuel to the fire.Don't you know she is dancing a jig right now because he is in trouble.Ignore her.


that sounds like good advice sally.
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Originally posted by southernsally:
Your brother has learned a vauable lesson.Life isn't fair.If this were my brother I would advise him to move forward and try get those failing grades up.It sounds as if the principle has got his number now and the best thing to combat that kind of attitude is to prove him wrong by being a good student.As for the ex everytime he acknowledges her behavior he is adding fuel to the fire.Don't you know she is dancing a jig right now because he is in trouble.Ignore her.


I agree 100 %! The only thing I would add is (because she said he was expelled which means he can't go back) go get his GED if he can't get into another school district. Just move forward like Sally said, he can still go on to college from there. Remind him that High School is just a very small part of your overall life and it doesn't end here.
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Originally posted by beeb:
And may I just add that, if you graduated from Deshler, every single one of their English teachers should be fired.


This is the times daily forums, not a Harvard English exam.

The poster's writing isn't bad, and it makes sense. That is all you really need when it comes to chatting on an online forum.

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SEM, I'm sorry you and you're family are having to go through all this. I definitely agree with Sally and the others, life isn't fair, and he should really take these lemons he's been handed, and make some really good lemonade.

I wish you all, the best of luck on finding a resolution, and that he is able to move forward with success. Smiler

~Amanda
Sem08,When I responded to your post yesterday I neglected to mention how much I admire the fact that you seem so concerned for your brother.I did not realize that your brother would not be allowed back into Deshler.At this point, your brother needs all the encouragement you can provide. He might take that anger he feels and use it to fuel energy to reach certain goals he may have.What does he dream of becoming? At his age anything is possible.....You never know.... one day that principle may show up to get a colonoscopy and your brother could be the doc doing the procedure.As for you, I think you have the makings to reach any goal you may have.I wish you both the best of luck.

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