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My son was tangentially involved in a food fight that erupted in the Russellville High School cafeteria this week. From what I gather, it was quite a melee and there was some damage done to some ceiling tiles which will need to be replaced. The kids are willing to pay for the damages. Other than probably a few kids feelings, no one was hurt in the incident.

There were two boys, both seniors, who were brought into the principal's office afterwards and "confessed" to starting the food fight. Both of these boys were suspended from school for several days and were told that, although they will receive their diplomas, they will not be allowed to participate in or be present at the graduation ceremony.

Now I realize that what these kids did was wrong, and that the school has every right to punish them for their actions. But it seems to me that in this case, the punishment does not fit the "crime". While I realize that the school could have punished them even more severely for their actions, it seems that the punishment is a little harsh. I know I did things that were a lot worse than being involved in food fights, and I was still allowed to "walk" at my graduation.

The way I see it, kids go to school to learn all different kinds of lessons, and I think we need to be careful about what kinds of messages are taught. Maybe it's a stretch, but this seems a little bit like sentencing someone to the death penalty for jay-walking.

I posted this on here hoping that others might chime in on what they feel is a fair punishment for kids who start food fights. Whatdya think?
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Originally posted by Peace Brother:
My son was tangentially involved in a food fight that erupted in the Russellville High School cafeteria this week. From what I gather, it was quite a melee and there was some damage done to some ceiling tiles which will need to be replaced. The kids are willing to pay for the damages. Other than probably a few kids feelings, no one was hurt in the incident.


I don’t have any suggestions as to a reasonable punishment but I do have a thought on this subject.

One thought is that the administrators should look at the records of the “main characters.” Have these guys been discipline problems throughout their school days, or is this a “first time offense?” Was this food fight premeditated or spontaneous? Did other students know it was going to happen?

And, at this time of year, what do MOST kids want—they want to be OUT of school so how much punishment was it for them to sit home a few days? I say make ‘em stay at school and give the school custodians a vacation! Make them clean up their messes.

Lastly, as far as them not getting to “walk” graduation with their class—this is as much punishment to the parents and grandparents as it is to the students—maybe more.

I don’t envy anyone having to make a decision in this case.
I'll second one of the above comments with a little background. Almost every school district dictates a "discipline ladder" for students. Doing so helps avoid lawsuits.

The discipline policy essentially sets up a framework of increasingly harsh punishments for each successive "offense" that a student commits over the school year. So there's a reasonable chance that although they created a problem with the food fight thing, that might have been one of their "better" days overall in terms of discipline. It may have been the straw that broke the camel's back.

I have no comment on what might or might not be a fair punishment, but the above is likely the rationale.
That's ridiculous! What is wrong with our school systems? Why must people go to the extreme? Think people! Food fight equals "sorry, kid, I realize you've spent 13 years (K-12) working towards this diploma, but because you acted like the moronic 18 year old you are, you don't get to participate in something you've looked forward to for 13 years". That is stupid. The intelligent response is to have them clean it up spotless by themselves, no matter how long it takes. Duh!

Let me just say that a young man in one of this area's school systems was kicked out of said school system this past year. He was caught with a girl during P.E. He'd never had a disipline problem before, ever, not one. Yes, he made a very poor choice, but kicked out of the school system on your one & only offense? They've all lost their minds.
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Originally posted by _Joy_:
If that were my senior class, not one of us would have walked across the stage without them.


I would never have disappointed my grandparents, neither of whom finished high school, by choosing to not walk across the stage in order to make a united stand in the name of a guy who threw green beans across a crowded lunchroom and subsequently got in trouble for it.
Walking with your senior class is once in a lifetime thing for the school not to let them walk is an outrage. there is other punishment they can do.

1. make them scrub the whole lunch room and school

2. pay for any damage that was done.

3. write a report


they can think of lots of things for their punishment beside not letting them walk. I understand if this goes unpunished in the right way all students will think they can get by with it.
Thanks for your comments above. As far as I know, this was pretty much a "first offense" case with both of these kids. I was glad to see that I'm not the only one who thinks the punishment meted out to these kids is a little harsh. I've spoken with the principal of the school and asked him to reconsider his decision about not letting them participate in graduation. I'm hoping maybe they're just trying to put a little fear in these two kids and are waiting until the day before graduation to change their minds and let them "walk". Thanks again for your input.
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Originally posted by excelman:
I think Joy is right. Make 'em clean it up, and let it go.
If that had happened when I was in school, we would have had to clean it up with our butts hurting from the paddeling.


Ditto on that. When I graduated we walked and accepted blank diplomas, if no one got in trouble in a week or so you could actually have them signed.

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