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I'm hanging in there. I got thru this weekend without calling her. I bet she was suprised not to hear from me.
I've been working a lot and told my boss to give me all the hours I can get. My sister told me to stay busy and not try not to think about it so that is what I've been trying to do.
If things stay the same I'm going to call a lawyer soon.
Javier, something
you said early on really struck me:

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Originally posted by Javier:
She is a lot better looking than me and I know she can do better


I'm really sad to hear that this is how you feel. Her looks don't have amount to a hill of beans, because what matters is that she's not pretty at all on the inside. You have been patient, loving, and devoted. How can she possibly hope for "better" than what you've given?

Those who know me may snicker a bit to see me give advice on low self-esteem, but since I'm acutely aware of how it makes you feel, I may be able to say things in a way that'll make sense to you. So, here goes...

No matter how attractive she is, this woman is not "better" than you, nor does she *deserve* "better" than you. It's very difficult - trust me, I know - to feel very worthwhile when you think the person you adore most doesn't want you. You begin to think things like, "Well, I don't know what she was doing with me, anyway" and "She can do better" and "I don't deserve her." This is all a lie that we tell ourselves, and the problem is, it's very easy to believe. And once we buy in to the lie, it begins to take over. Since we feel we don't deserve to be treated with love and respect, we don't expect it. And if we don't expect it, we surely won't demand it.

The simple truth is, everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect in a relationship, and if she has not done so, it's she who does not deserve you.
um, trader, you been hacked? That doesn't sound like you?

Amen, Ed...could not agree more. Hang in there, Javier. Fill your life with as much positive as possible. If you like work, work is good. Find ways to do for others...random acts of kindness or planned acts of kindness. Be with supportive family and friends. Your sister sounds like she is there for you. Vent here any time. Smiler
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Originally posted by Javier:
I'm hanging in there. I got thru this weekend without calling her. I bet she was suprised not to hear from me.
I've been working a lot and told my boss to give me all the hours I can get. My sister told me to stay busy and not try not to think about it so that is what I've been trying to do.
If things stay the same I'm going to call a lawyer soon.

Good to hear you are trying to stay busy. I would not wait till later to speak to a lawyer, you can always tell an attorney that you changed your mind later but it is good to get good legal advice from the start especially if kids are involved.
the reason she said she has had enough and wants you to move out is because she has ran out of places to sleep with the (probably married) guy she is seeing behind your back. and she wants to do it in your home because its less likely he would get caught. women are evil like that... trust me i know from experience i have yet to meet a 100% honest/Loyal female companion . sorry to sound so harsh but im just being blunt
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Originally posted by semiannualchick:
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Originally posted by Homer Jim Billy Bob:
women are evil like that... trust me i know from experience i have yet to meet a 100% honest/Loyal female companion . sorry to sound so harsh but im just being blunt


Evidently you're looking in the wrong places.


I suggest a female golden retriever for Homer Jim Billy Bob for an honest,loyal female companion. Their hair would match, too!
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Originally posted by lynnblount:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Homer Jim Billy Bob:
well i have 3 more to that its actually Homer Jim Billy Bob Jebediah Isiah Henry Smith thats my full name


What? No "Earl" in your name? You're obviously a fake. Wink[/QUOTE Got to be fake Lynn with no Earl or Wayne in his name. Big Grin
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Originally posted by Homer Jim Billy Bob:
the reason she said she has had enough and wants you to move out is because she has ran out of places to sleep with the (probably married) guy she is seeing behind your back. and she wants to do it in your home because its less likely he would get caught. women are evil like that... trust me i know from experience i have yet to meet a 100% honest/Loyal female companion . sorry to sound so harsh but im just being blunt


Yeah most women don't stay with men who have miniature dicks like yourself. You are a card carrying, wic cheese eating, loser.

Now go get you a gas station burger.
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Originally posted by Woodrat:
Yeah most women don't stay with men who have miniature dicks like yourself. You are a card carrying, wic cheese eating, loser.

Now go get you a gas station burger.


Hey, don't be bringing WIC cheese (or bad language)into this.... lots of women buy food through the WIC (Women, Infants, Children) program. No need to bring any mention of innocent infants and children into this conversation.
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Originally posted by Javier:
Then some of you are wrong or crazy. And after reading some of the stuff on here this week I think I have come upon a bunch of crazy people with you being at the top of the list.
.....Earthmomma is far fromm crazy Javier. You may be the one who has problems. You started this....remember??
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Originally posted by Javier:
Then some of you are wrong or crazy. And after reading some of the stuff on here this week I think I have come upon a bunch of crazy people with you being at the top of the list.


You may be for real, but I cannot imagine anyone telling their personal problems on this carnival of trolls unless they was making it up.

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