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This is ok in his view? What happened to in sickness and in health?

 

"Religious broadcaster Pat Robertson told his "700 Club" viewers that divorcing a spouse with Alzheimer's is justifiable because the disease is "a kind of death."

During the portion of the show where the one-time Republican presidential candidate takes questions from viewers, Robertson was asked what advice a man should give to a friend who began seeing another woman after his wife started suffering from the incurable neurological disorder.

"I know it sounds cruel, but if he's going to do something, he should divorce her and start all over again, but make sure she has custodial care and somebody looking after her," Robertson said.

The chairman of the Christian Broadcasting Network, which airs the "700 Club," said he wouldn't "put a guilt trip" on anyone who divorces a spouse who suffers from the illness, but added, "Get some ethicist besides me to give you the answer."

Most Christian denominations at least discourage divorce, citing Jesus' words in the Gospel of Mark that equate divorce and remarriage with adultery.

Terry Meeuwsen, Robertson's co-host, asked him about couples' marriage vows to take care of each other "for better or for worse" and "in sickness and in health."

"If you respect that vow, you say 'til death do us part,'" Robertson said during the Tuesday broadcast. "This is a kind of death."

A network spokesman said Wednesday that Robertson had no further statement.

Divorce is uncommon among couples where one partner is suffering from Alzheimer's, said Beth Kallmyer, director of constituent services for the Alzheimer's Association, which provides resources to sufferers and their families.

"We don't hear a lot of people saying 'I'm going to get divorced,'" she told The Associated Press. "Families typically respond the way they do to any other fatal disease."

The stress can be significant in marriages though, Kallmyer said, because it results in the gradual loss of a person's mental faculties.

"The caregiving can be really stressful on a couple of levels," she said. "There's the physical level. There's also the emotional level of feeling like you're losing that person you love."

As a result, she said, it's important for couples to make decisions about care together in the early stages of the illness, when its effects aren't as prominent."

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Originally Posted by David L.:

I'm not an expert on the Bible and have never read it, but doesn't it say divorce itself is a sin?

Depends on the situation. Basically, it boils down to if you make a promise to care for someone for life, you're supposed to keep it.

 

Robertson is making up his own rules. The Bible instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church. 1 Corinthians 13:4 explains exactly what love is, which includes "always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."

 

So based on what the Bible says, if my wife should suffer from Alzheimer's, I'll protect, preserve, and take care of her until the end, and it will be an honor to do it.

 

Since Robertson's opinion is contradictory to this, it's best to just ignore him. It's not the first time he's gotten something wrong.

Originally Posted by David L.:

I'm not an expert on the Bible and have never read it, but doesn't it say divorce itself is a sin?

*****

 

The New Testament prohibits divorce except in the case of infidelity on the part of one of the marriage partners (see Matthew 19:9).  Incredibly, the Catholic Church does not accept adultery as a basis for divorce.

Originally Posted by David L.:

I'm not an expert on the Bible and have never read it, but doesn't it say divorce itself is a sin?

Christians are supposed to keep commitments if at all possible. The Bibles say divorce for any reason other than adultery and then remarriage is a sin. Not many people practice that doctrine unfortunately. Studies show if couples will stick out the early hard parts of marriage, they have an even better  relationship. Sadly many couples want to divorce at the first sign of a problem.

 

I've known several couples who divorced and never dated anyone else until their death. They didn't feel they were qualified in God's eyes to marry again.

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