My little flaggies are working.
But there is a reason why yours may not. The EVE community forums are set up so that the PM banner / flag loads last. So the whole entire page appears, first the banner, then the ads, they body, the toolbar, the message screen, the avatars.... all the way to the VERY LAST THING - the PM flag. So if yours isn't showing up it could be that you are not staying on a page (looking at the top) long enough to see it. Sometimes it loads a full 3 seconds after everything seems to have loaded. I'll PM you guys and come back (after 12:55 pm) and see if waiting a minute (or 10 on dial up) helps