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Spoons in underwear helping to stop forced marriages in Britain

Derby -  One British charity has found an ingenious method  of helping airport security staff save potential victims of forced marriage. 
 Karma Nirvana, a Derby-based organization which supports  victims and survivors of forced marriage and 'honor'-based abuse, came up with  the idea of having girls and young woman who believe they may be forced into  marriage against their will put spoons in their underwear to clandestinely alert  airport security.
The hidden spoons set off airport metal detectors, allowing the girls to be  taken away from their parents and searched and giving them an opportunity to  notify authorities of their predicament. In many cases, this is the last chance  the girl may have to escape what could be a lifelong nightmare halfway across  the globe.  
 
"If they don't know exactly when  [forced marriage] may happen or if it's going to happen, we advise them to put a  spoon in their underwear," Karma Nirvana operations manager Natasha Rattu told Agence France-Presse. "When they go through security,  it will highlight this object in a private area and, if 16 or over, they will be  taken to a safe space where they have that one last opportunity to disclose  they're being forced to marry."  
 
"We've had people ring and [tell us]  that it's helped them and got them out of a dangerous situation," Rattu added.  "It's an incredibly difficult thing to do with your family around you-- but they  won't be aware you've done it. It's a safe way."  
 
British school summer holidays are peak  period for forced marriages. Families from South Asia, the Middle and Near East  and North Africa who have emigrated to Britain sometimes cling to cultural  traditions that violate human rights and are unacceptable in Western society.  Teens, mostly girls age 15-16, are often sent abroad on 'holidays' that turn out  to be forced marriages.  
 
Karma Nirvana is working in and with  various UK airports to spot potential victims of forced marriages, such as  one-way tickets, the age and appearance of the passenger and the time of the  year of travel.
"These are quite general points, but there are things that if you look  collectively lead you to believe something more sinister is going on," Rattu  told AFP.  
 
One woman, whose identity is being  concealed for her protection, told AFP she was married off against her will to a  man in India. She said her father threatened to track her down and kill her if  she attempted to escape her horrific fate.  
 
"I was shipped off with a total  stranger," she said. "That night I was raped by my husband and this abuse  continued for about eight and a half years of my life."  
 
According to the Foreign Office's Forced Marriage  Unit (FMU), there were 1,485 cases in which the agency "gave advice or support  related to a possible forced marriage" in 2012. Ages ranged from 2 to 71; 82  percent involved females. The overwhelming majority involved Muslim nations or  countries with large Muslim minorities: Pakistan (47 percent), Bangladesh (11  percent), India (8 percent), Afghanistan (2 percent), Somalia (1 percent),  Turkey (1 percent) and Iraq (1 percent) were at the top of the UK government  list.  
 
'Izzat,' a concept of family honor  prevalent in Pakistan and northern India that transcends religions, places heavy  pressure on young people to marry relatives in countries and cultures that may  be extremely foreign to youngsters who grew up in Britain. Those who refuse are  threatened with expulsion from their families or even violence and death.  
 
"It really takes a brave person to  stand up against their family," Rattu told AFP.  
 
Rattu said that the number of potential  forced marriage cases has risen since the Muslim holy month of Ramadan ended  last week.
 
 
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Originally Posted by Contendah:
Originally Posted by Bestworking:

Now that they know about them, the momma's will be checking the girl's underwear.

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Maybe the girls could overcome that with a small spoon or other metallic object tucked inside some where in the underwear region.

You must be talking about a .220 swift cartridge contendah. That will take
you out of the line very fast. Of course someone might shoot you with it.

lol,,well I guess thar's not funny.

 

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