Last night, my daughter received an engagement ring. In looking at what her mom and I will be responsible for, I had a good laugh when I found the following that listed one the responsibles for the Father of the Bride was to stay sober. Is it going to be that bad?
Responsibilities of the Mother of the Bride
•If needed, help the bride and groom choose the venues and vendors for the ceremony and reception.
•Maintain the master guest list.
•Offer to be the point person for vendors.
•Attend bridal showers and purchase gifts for each one.
•Shop for bridal gowns with the bride. Offer suggestions and emotional support.
•Consult with the bride and mother of the groom then choose a dress according to the bride’s wishes.
•Escort the bride down the aisle if that is her wish.
•Join the mother of the groom to light the unity candle if that is part of the ceremony.
•If not escorting the bride down the aisle, immediately before the ceremony, the usher should seat the mother of the bride on the front row.
•At the reception, greet guests.
•Provide emotional support when needed.
Responsibilities of the Father of the Bride
•Be involved in the planning and budget.
•Participate in anything the bride wishes.
•Help prevent tension from tainting this special event by diffusing anxiety.
•Dress in the style decided by the bride and groom.
•Be available to help with vendors, the wedding party, guests and any other situations that arise.
•Escort the bride down the aisle.
•Dance with the bride immediately after the bride and groom’s first dance.
•Propose a toast to the new couple. Say only nice things that will make the bride and groom feel good.
•Stay sober during the reception.
Responsibilities of the Mother of the Groom
•Contact the bride’s parents as soon as the engagement is announced. Arrange to get together with them.
•Offer help with finding venues and vendors.
•Provide a guest list for the groom’s side of the family and friends, keeping the maximum number set by the bride’s family in mind.
•Attend bridal showers and bring gifts.
•Discuss wedding day dresses with the mother of the bride and find one that is appropriate.
•Help plan and host the rehearsal dinner.
•Join the mother of the bride and light the unity candle if that is part of the ceremony.
•Receive and greet guests at the reception.
•Dance with the groom after the bride and groom’s first dance.
Responsibilities of the Father of the Groom
•Get to know and establish a rapport with the bride’s parents.
•Offer financial assistance with the wedding drink tab.
•Wear the tuxedo or suit preferred by the groom.
•Work with the mother of the groom to plan and host the rehearsal dinner.
•Provide support when the groom needs it.
•Receive and greet guests at the reception.
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